Wednesday, April 8, 2009

LAST CHANCE!!! :D

Final reminder (ok I lied before when I said there was only gonna be one mention of this thing!) about our BBQ this Friday at 5:30!

Mark's been checking the weather and it's supposed to sprinkle in the morning but clear up for the afternoon!  ...praying!...

Friday April 10 at 5:30!  BE THERE!!!  :D  

Or...HERE I mean!  

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Just for FUN!

I had to watch this twice cuz I was laughing so hard the first time I missed some!!!  



Sunday, April 5, 2009

Because it touched me in church today....



The splendor of a King,
Clothed in majesty
Let all the earth rejoice,
All the earth rejoice
He wraps himself in light,
And darkness tries to hide
And trembles at his voice,
And trembles at his voice

CHORUS(1):
How great is our God,
sing with me
How great is our God,
and all will see
How great, How great
Is our God

VERSE(2):
Age to age he stands
And time is in His Hands
Beginning and the End,
Beginning and the End
The Godhead, Three in one
Father, Spirit, Son
The Lion and the Lamb,
The Lion and the Lamb

CHORUS(1):
How great is our God,
sing with me
How great is our God,
and all will see
How great, How great
Is our God

CHORUS(2)
Name above all names
You are Worthy of all praise
and My heart will sing how great
Is our God

LOVE THIS!!!

My neighbor Kathy sent this to me and like her, I've seen it before but it's SO worth sharing again!

Now this is the Living Bible: 


His name is Bill. He has wild hair, wears a T-shirt with holes in it,
jeans, and no shoes. This was literally his wardrobe for his entire
four years of college.

He is brilliant. Kind of profound and very, very bright. He became a
Christian while attending college.

Across the street from the campus is a well-dressed, very conservative church. They want to develop a ministry to the students but are not sure how to go about it.

One day Bill decides to go there. He walks in with no shoes, jeans, his T-shirt, and wild hair.. The service has already started and so
Bill starts down the aisle looking for a seat.

The church is completely packed and he can't find a seat. By now,
people are really looking a bit uncomfortable, but no one says anything.

Bill gets closer and closer and closer to the pulpit, and when he
realizes there are no seats, he just squats down right on the carpet.

By now the people are really uptight, and the tension in the air is
thick.

About this time, the minister realizes that from way at the back of the
church, a deacon is slowly making his way toward Bill.

Now the deacon is in his eighties, has silver-gray hair, and a
three-piece suit. A godly man, very elegant, very dignified, very
courtly. He walks with a cane and, as he starts walking toward this
boy, everyone is saying to themselves that you can't blame him for what
he's going to do.


How can you expect a man of his age and of his background to understand some college kid on the floor?

It takes a long time for the man to reach the boy.

The church is utterly silent except for the clicking of the man's cane.
All eyes are focused on him.. You can't even hear anyone breathing. The minister can't even preach the sermon until the deacon does what he has to do.

And now they see this elderly man drop his cane on the floor. With
great difficulty, he lowers himself and sits down next to Bill and
worships with him so he won't be alone.

Everyone chokes up with emotion.
When the minister gains control, he says,

'What I'm about to preach, you will never remember. What you have just seen, you will never forget.'

'Be careful how you live. You may be the only Bible some people will
ever read!'

I asked
the Lord to bless you
As I prayed for you today.
To guide you and protect you
As you go along your way....
His love is always with you,
His promises are true,
And when we give Him all our cares,
You know He will see us through..

Only if you feel led to, pass this to
 
People you want God to Bless.
....I DID!

Friday, April 3, 2009

Friday doctor visit

Ok, first and foremost, MAD props and thanks for all the prayer over the last two weeks for the negative result on that Flat 3 ligand test.  Got the results today and once again the prayer warriors dedication paid off!  We are free and clear of THAT obstacle!  Thanks everyone!

First thing Dr. Caton said to Mark today was, "Wow, you look GOOD!".  Gotta love hearing that from an oncologist ey??  And yes, I gotta agree, my man does look good!  And he FEELS good!  It's gonna be a great week this week feeling and BEING normal!  We're even gonna get out and weed this weekend AND we're gonna do a date on Tuesday!  It's the little things.

All of Mark's blood counts are back to normal.  COMPLETELY NORMAL!  Praise God.  We were a little confused on the plan for the next four months so let me clarify for y'all.

Mark starts his "consolodation chemo" on Monday 4-13.  He will be getting HEAVY doeses of the chemo Monday, Wednesday and Friday of that week then will be release on Saturday.  This is week ONE.   The next week, or week TWO, is rest time.  Dr. Caton said he expects Mark's blood counts to be down by Thursday or Friday of week two and that's when the trouble starts.  He will be Neutropenic and will start having fevers again.  Once those fevers start he will be readmitted for antibiotics and 24 hour care.  Sometime near the end week THREE his counts should be coming back and will be released back home to rest up the rest of that week then for all of week FOUR (God willing).    We will then start again with week ONE the following Monday.  It is a four week cycle instead of a two week cycle like we'd thought before.  We had assumed when the doc said "week in week out" of the hospital he meant that we'd be doing the chemo every other week...not that he expects Mark to be SO SICK that he'll be back in.  Oy.  He also said by the end Mark will be wrecked.  It's gonna be harder and harder on his body and for him to recover.  BUT...it could be worse!!

We go in early on 4-13 to have Mark's blood drawn to HLA match him for blood marrow.  At this time we aren't planning for a transplant, but the chances of the Leukemia coming back in the first two years are 65%...so Dr. Caton wants to get the match going so IF he has a relapse we won't have to wait as long or even at all.  BUT, we all know that's not going to happen because God is so good and will get Mark through these odds as he has all the rest.  Just another step we have to take to make us all worry!  hehe!  But yes, please add this to the prayer.

Don't forget about the bbq on the 10th!!  We are excited about it and want lots of people here so get on the phone and RSVP!!  :)

~B~

Thursday, April 2, 2009

Bday/Remission par-TAY!

Hello Friends!

This is my official (and only!  hehe) invitation to all that read this blog to a special party!  Mark is going to be recuperating from his next dose of chemo on his ACTUAL birthday this year, so I'm having an early bday party for him.  ALSO I thought it'd be the perfect excuse to celebrate his remission, his being home, his feeling better, and all the wonderful support from friends and family that we've had over the last several weeks!  We feel so blessed and want to have you guys over, feed ya some burgers and hot dogs and thank you IN PERSON!  AND Mark has TONS of hugs to pass out!!!  :D

Date: Friday, April 10, 2009
Time: 5:30 (ish)
Who: YOU!!!  Plus your spouse, your kids and whoever else you wanna bring!
RSVP:   By Wednesday April 8 so I can get a head count for shopping!!  By email or phone is fine! :)
becknbunch@centurytel.net  OR
541-513-6422  (Becky cell) OR
541-895-3245 (home)

I want to make this a great day for all of us...I think after the last month we've all shared together we deserve a good time!!  So please, come and celebrate with us! 

~B~

PS.  By the way...no presents!!  We just want to get together with you all.  Besides, your thoughts, prayer and undying support has been all the best gift we could ever hope to get.  <3

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Just for the soul....

No cancer talk, no house cleaning talk, no annoying kids talk today.  Just something I received from my neighbor that really touched me and I need to share.

God Bless ~B~





TO MEET SUCH A MAN

I sat, with two friends, in the picture window of a quaint restaurant just off the corner of the town-square. The food and the company were both especially good that day.
As we talked, my attention was drawn outside, across the street. There, walking into town, was a man who appeared to be carrying all his worldly goods on his back. He was carrying, a well-worn sign that read, 'I will work for food.' My heart sank.

I brought him to the attention of my friends and noticed that others around us had stopped eating to focus on him. Heads moved in a mixture of sadness and disbelief. We continued with our meal, but his image lingered in my mind We finished our meal and went our separate ways. I had errands to do and quickly set out to accomplish them. I glanced toward the town square, looking somewhat halfheartedly for the strange visitor. I was fearful, knowing that seeing him again would call some response. I drove through town and saw nothing of him. I made some purchases at a store and got back in my car.

Deep within me, the Spirit of God kept speaking to me: 'Don't go back to the office until you've at least driven once more around the square.' Then with some hesitancy, I headed back into town. As I turned the squares third corner, I saw him. He was standing on the steps of the store front church, going through his sack.

I stopped and looked; feeling both compelled to speak to him, yet wanting to drive on.

The empty parking space on the corner seemed to be a sign from God: an invitation to park. I pulled in, got out and approached the town's newest visitor

'Looking for the pastor?' I asked.

'Not really,' he replied, 'just resting.'

'Have you eaten today?'

'Oh, I ate something early this morning.'

'Would you like to have lunch with me?'

'Do you have some work I could do for you?'

'No work,' I replied. 'I commute here to work from the city, but I would like to take you to lunch.'

'Sure,' he replied with a smile.

As he began to gather his things, I asked some surface questions.

'Where are you headed?'

' St. Louis ....'

'Where are you from?'

'Oh, all over; mostly Florida .'

'How long have you been walking?'

'Fourteen years,' came the reply.

I knew I had met someone unusual. We sat across from each other in the same restaurant I had left earlier. His face was weathered slightly beyond his 38 years. His eyes were dark yet clear, and he spoke with an eloquence and articulation that was startling. He removed his jacket to reveal a bright red T-shirt that said, 'Jesus is The Never Ending Story.'

Then Daniel's story began to unfold. He had seen rough times early in life. He'd made some wrong choices and reaped the consequences. Fourteen years earlier, while back-packing across the country, he had stopped on the beach in Daytona. He tried to hire on with some men who were putting up a large tent and some equipment. A concert, he thought.

He was hired, but the tent would not house a concert but revival services, and in those services he saw life more clearly. He gave his life over to God.

'Nothing's been the same since,' he said, 'I felt the Lord telling me to keep walking, and so I did, some 14 years now.'

'Ever think of stopping?' I asked.

'Oh, once in a while, when it seems to get the best of me but God has given me this calling. I give out Bibles. That's what's in my sack. I work to buy food and Bibles, and I give them out when His Spirit leads.'

I sat amazed. My homeless friend was not homeless. He was on a mission and l ived this way by choice. The question burned inside for a moment and then I asked: 'What's it like?'

'What?'

'To walk into a town carrying all your things on your back and to show your sign?'

'Oh, it was humiliating at first. People would stare and make comments. Once someone tossed a piece of half-eaten bread and made a gesture that certainly didn't make me feel welcome. But then it became humbling to realize that God was using me to touch lives and change people's concepts of other folks like me'

My concept was changing, too. We finished our dessert and gathered his things. Just outside the door, he paused. He turned to me and said, 'Come Ye blessed of my Father and inherit the kingdom I've prepared for you. For when I was hungry you gave me food, when I was thirsty you gave me drink, a stranger and you took me in.'

I felt as if we were on holy ground..

'Could you use another Bible?' I asked.

He said he preferred a certain translation. It traveled well and was not too heavy. It was also his personal favorite. 'I've read through it 14 times,' he said.

'I'm not sure we've got one of those, but let's stop by our church and see.' I was able to find my new friend a Bible that would do well, and he seemed very grateful.

'Where are you headed from here?' I asked.

'Well, I found this little map on the back of this amusement park coupon.'

'Are you hoping to hire on there for awhile?'

'No, I just figure I should go there. I figure someone under that star right there needs a Bible, so that's where I'm going next.'

He smiled, and the warmth of his spirit radiated the sincerity of his mission. I drove him back to the town-square where we'd met two hours earlier, and as we drove, it started raining. We parked and unloaded his things.

'Would you sign my autograph book?' he asked. 'I like to keep messages from folks I meet.'

I wrote in his little book that his commitment to his calling had touched my life. I encouraged him to stay strong. And I left him with a verse of scripture from Jeremiah, 'I know the plans I have for you, declared the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you; Plans to give you a future and a hope.'

'Thanks, man,' he said. 'I know we just met and we're really just strangers, but I love you.'

'I know,' I said, 'I love you, too.' 'The Lord is good!'

'Yes, He is. How long has it been since someone hugged you?' I asked.

'A long time,' he replied

And so on the busy street corner in the drizzling rain, my new friend and I embraced, and I felt deep inside that I had been changed. He put his things on his back, smiled his winning smile and said, 'See you in the New Jerusalem.'

'I'll be there!' was my reply.

He began his journey again. He headed away with his sign dangling from his bed roll and pack of Bibles. He stopped, turned and said, 'When you see something that makes you think of me, will you pray for me?'

'You bet,' I shouted back, 'God bless.'

'God bless.' And that was the last I saw of him.

Late that evening as I left my office, the wind blew strong. The cold front had settled hard upon the town. I bundled up and hurried to my car. As I sat back and reached for the emergency brake, I saw them... a pair of well-worn brown work gloves neatly laid over the length of the handle. I picked them up and thought of my friend and wondered if his hands would stay warm that night without them.

Then I remembered his words: 'If you see something that makes you think of me, will you pray for me?'

Today his gloves lie on my desk in my office. They help me to see the world and its people in a new way, and they help me remember those two hours with my unique friend and to pray for his ministry. 'See you in the New Jerusalem,' he said. Yes, Daniel, I know I will...

If this story touched you, forward it to a friend!

'I shall pass this way but once. Therefore, any good that I can do or any kindness that I can show, let me do it now, for I shall not pass this way again.'

My instructions were to send this to four people that I wanted God to bless and I picked you. Please pass this to four people you want to be blessed.

This prayer is powerful and there is nothing attached. Please do not break this pattern. Prayer is one of the best gifts we receive. There is no cost but a lot of rewards. Let's continue to pray for one another. God bless and have a nice day!

'Father, I ask y ou to bless my friends, relatives and e-mail buddies reading this right now. Show them a new revelation of your love and power. Holy Spirit, I ask you to minister to their spirit at this very moment. Where there is pain, give them your peace and mercy. Where there is self-doubt, release a renewed confidence through your grace, In Jesus' precious Name Amen.'


I sent this to more than four, but this story is so touching I felt each of you would enjoy it greatly.

GOD BLESS YOU MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY!!!